1. 不紧张。美国警察都是些普通人，切记美国人恐怕是全球独一无二的（总的来说）非常在乎别人是否认为自己很 nice 的一群人 （常听人提 “It's nice to be important. But it's more important to be nice."）。所以除非你看上去就像小痞子，人家不想和你闹僵，甚至还担心弄不好被投诉，其心理活动和大爷一样的中国警察完全不一样。
2. 显示尊重。目光对视，叫人家“Officer"或”Sir“，把车窗摇下，两手放在方向盘上（警察需要看见你的双手，人家怕你掏枪），该给的东西都有（驾照丶Registration）。
3. 认错（但要在警察提示之后，不要先主动说）。“Sorry maybe I was speeding a little. Is that why you stopped me?" "Did I miss a stop sign? I'm so sorry if that happened. I've always tried to be careful."
4. 寻求同情。嘴不要停的道歉丶解释和哀求，最好有眼泪，但别说谎。
“I'm so sorry, I always watch my speed, but the music from the radio distracted me just for a few seconds."
"Sir. My traffic record is very clean because I'm a careful driver. I promise to more carefully watch the speed/stop sign...etc"
"My daughter is performing at her school and I'm running late."
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5. 实在不行，要求人家给开个警告“Warning”，但先不给罚单。
发表于 2017-5-4 13:36:39